Making child arrangements if you divorce or separate

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If you agree

You do not have to do any official paperwork if you agree about child arrangements.

You can write down what you바카라 사이트™ve agreed in a if you want a record.

If you want to make your agreement legally binding, a legal advisor can help with the paperwork.

Making your agreement legally binding

You can get a legal advisor to draft a 바카라 사이트˜consent order바카라 사이트™ if you want a legally binding agreement.

A consent order is a legal document that confirms your agreement. It can include details about how you바카라 사이트™ll look after your children, such as:

  • where they live
  • when they spend time with each parent
  • when and what other types of contact take place (phone calls, for example)

You and your ex-partner both have to sign the draft consent order. You바카라 사이트™ll also need to get the consent order approved.

You or your ex-partner need to apply for a court order to get your consent order approved. Your legal advisor can help you with your application.

You will not need to show that you바카라 사이트™ve tried mediation.

Keep a copy of both the form and the draft consent order.

After the court gets your paperwork

There바카라 사이트™s usually no court hearing. A judge will approve your consent order to make it legally binding if they think you바카라 사이트™ve made decisions in your children바카라 사이트™s interest.

If the judge does not think your consent order is in your children바카라 사이트™s interest they can:

  • change your consent order
  • make a different court order to decide what바카라 사이트™s best for your children
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Part of Get a divorce: step by step

  1. Step 1 Get support and advice

    You can get support or counselling to help you through the divorce process.

  2. Step 2 Check if you can get divorced

    1. Check if you can get a divorce
    2. Get legal advice if you want help with the divorce process

  3. Step 3 Make arrangements for children, money and property

    1. Make arrangements for your children
    2. Divide your money and property
    3. Check if your divorce will affect whether you can live in your current home

  4. Step 4 Apply for a divorce

    1. Apply for a divorce online or by post £593
    2. Get help with court fees
    3. Get legal advice
    4. Get help if your husband or wife cannot make decisions for themselves

  5. Step 5 Apply for a 바카라 사이트˜conditional order바카라 사이트™ or 바카라 사이트˜decree nisi바카라 사이트™

    1. Apply for a 바카라 사이트˜conditional order바카라 사이트™ or 'decree nisi'

  6. Step 6 Finalise your divorce

    1. Apply for a 바카라 사이트˜final order바카라 사이트™ or 'decree absolute'

  7. Step 7 Report that your circumstances have changed

    You also have to tell other government organisations that you're getting divorced if: