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Change or enforce an order

You can change an existing court order or consent order. You can also ask a court to enforce an order if your ex-partner is not following it.

If you ask the court to change or enforce an order, you바카라 사이트™ll probably have to go to a court hearing. You can usually avoid this if you get support outside of court, such as using a mediator or getting other help instead.

Change an order

You can decide to do something different from the court order, if you both agree. But you will not be able to enforce this later on unless you make it legally binding.

Make a change legally binding

If you both agree, you can draft a consent order to cover the new agreement and ask the court to approve it.

If you cannot agree, you can ask a court to decide how to change (바카라 사이트˜vary바카라 사이트™) the order.

Enforce an order

If your ex-partner is not following the order, you can ask the court to enforce it. Follow these steps.

  1. Fill in form C79 to apply - read guidance CB5 if you need help.

  2. Use form C78 to attach a 바카라 사이트˜warning notice바카라 사이트™ if your order was made before 8 December 2008. Orders made after this date will already include one.

  3. Send it to the . It costs £255.

The court will look at the facts again to see if anything has changed.

If the court enforces the order

Depending on your situation and what you바카라 사이트™ve asked the court to decide they might make:

  • an 바카라 사이트˜enforcement order바카라 사이트™ - this means your ex-partner has to do between 40 and 200 hours of unpaid work
  • an 바카라 사이트˜order for compensation for financial loss바카라 사이트™ - this means your ex-partner has to pay back any money you바카라 사이트™ve lost because they did not follow the order (for example if you missed a holiday)

You can go back to the court if your ex-partner still does not do as the court ordered.

If the court does not enforce the order

The court might not enforce the existing order if they think that your ex-partner is not following it because:

  • they have a good reason
  • it바카라 사이트™s better for your children to do something different

You can go back to the court if you do not agree with their decision or your situation changes.

End an order

Use form C100 to apply to end (바카라 사이트˜discharge바카라 사이트™) a court order that바카라 사이트™s not working, or is not relevant to you and your children any more.

If your order ends at a fixed time (바카라 사이트˜time-limited바카라 사이트™), you can make your own agreement afterwards. You can get support to reach agreement, such as using a mediator or getting other help.

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Part of Get a divorce: step by step

  1. Step 1 Get support and advice

    You can get support or counselling to help you through the divorce process.

  2. Step 2 Check if you can get divorced

    1. Check if you can get a divorce
    2. Get legal advice if you want help with the divorce process

  3. Step 3 Make arrangements for children, money and property

    1. Make arrangements for your children
    2. Divide your money and property
    3. Check if your divorce will affect whether you can live in your current home

  4. Step 4 Apply for a divorce

    1. Apply for a divorce online or by post £593
    2. Get help with court fees
    3. Get legal advice
    4. Get help if your husband or wife cannot make decisions for themselves

  5. Step 5 Apply for a 바카라 사이트˜conditional order바카라 사이트™ or 바카라 사이트˜decree nisi바카라 사이트™

    1. Apply for a 바카라 사이트˜conditional order바카라 사이트™ or 'decree nisi'

  6. Step 6 Finalise your divorce

    1. Apply for a 바카라 사이트˜final order바카라 사이트™ or 'decree absolute'

  7. Step 7 Report that your circumstances have changed

    You also have to tell other government organisations that you're getting divorced if: